I know the pain you are going through too well myself.
When you need someone so bad and you want it to be perfect.
When you have waited so dam long, patiently and persistently.
When you ... Really really like someone.
You can't help but facestalk them and wish so much that it would just happen and that it will over time.
Let's take a look at the other side too though.
I know it's hard to understand when you are caught up in your own feelings but as much as you want them, it isn't ultimately up to you.
Okay, crush-ers. So you know that someone likes you. A lot. Maybe possibly loves you?
And you are confused... Because everyone wants you to give them a chance but inside you aren't sure.
You are just trying to do the right thing... But there is a certain point to your selflessness.
Just because someone wants you, it doesn't mean you should be pressured into a relationship.
You want to give them a chance... But your instincts do not want to rush into crap you know you don't want... Or you aren't ready for.
You want your own fairytale too... Yet you can't be certain it is with this person. Not because they are ugly or cruel or mean or unfit or anything. Just coz it doesn't feel right.
Yet you know that person is waiting for you and it breaks them every minute you stall.
Ultimate truth: we will just have to see what happens but right now everyone can tell this is going round in circles.
So if you are majorly whipped or dodging a whippee... Think about it from their perspective too. Coz it is uncomfortable for both of you. Don't be selfish, talk about it. Don't get caught up so much in your own feelings that you lose sight of the other person. If you would like any advice, email me. :) I am happy to help and work the best when I am not getting too personally involved (which I do, only coz I want to offer u sympathy).
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