It opens at the close?

Have you ever had one of those friends who you could have sat down with and written an endless list of things you had in common?

Then you try to think of one thing now and your mind goes:

-

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just like that?

Well,  of course you have, everyone has a friend like that, and even if you don't, it doesn't matter coz you are sometime or another bound to meet someone like this.

Most of my friendships start off with people whom I think, "OMG WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON! WE'RE GONNA BE FRIENDS FOR LIFE!"

And then

months pass

and you start to forget what it was you had in common to begin with.

I think it's the whole 'getting to know each other better' part  that clears up the air.

All the fakeness can't last forever,
You start to realise what you find annoying about the person,
They know you so well that they know the annoying b*tch side of you as well as the happy lovely side of you that you wish you could wear 24/7.

And then you realise all these things,
These things pop up which you DON'T have in common.

Like differing opinions,
Approaches to life,
Or just in general the way you treat each other and yourselves.

Then there comes that time when people are itching for a b*tching, quite literally.

Someone pisses you off so bad that you simply have to tell someone, regardless of the fact that they are one of your best/close friends.

I advise:
KEEP IT IN!

B*tching is the way that a rocky friendship can plummet from 'there's nothing there anymore' to 'i never want to speak to you again'.

And you don't want that!

Pwaaaah I never claim that I'm perfect,
For sure I am guilty of every mistake I blog about,
And for sure I've had b*tch itches before that I've reacted to and it hasn't gone down well.

Being over-exposed to someone can lead to forgetting to appreciate them.
:)

So yeah, some things do open at the close.
Some friendships break away by themselves,
Don't get impatient and start pulling out the grass, trying to clear out the weeds,
Coz it will get nasty.
Let nature act on its own accord.

Girls can be downright nasty if they choose to. don't choose to.
Hhahaaa remminds me of the saying,
"Any thing that bleeds for 5 days without dying comes from the devil".

Be a hctib, not the other way around! :)
Hang in there, baby ;)